Maintaining a family is a common responsibility of couples, and how to use each other's salary depends on two ways to achieve common understanding. A wife complained that her husband did not dare to hand over the money to her, as if she did not trust her. As a result, she was not supported. Instead, she was "reeducated" by netizens, believing that her vision should be corrected.
When should you pay your salary to your wife for custody after marriage?"After marriage, shouldn't boys actively pay their deposits and salary to their wife for their custody?" The celebrity wife was jailed in the "Anonymous Commune" of the face community, accusing her husband of failing to "pay" his money and "please pay" with his wife if he needs it. Instead, he insisted on managing the money of both parties, and handed over part of his salary to a joint account to pay the common expenses he usually paid.
The publisher suspected that her husband did not trust her, so he would "dare not to pay the money to me." He said dissatisfiedly, "I don't use it, and I dare not give it to me for my identity and seal. I am all husband and wife, so beware of this." He also asked netizens with a crying face: "It shouldn't be like this, right?"
"Salary to my wife for custody" in which era was the old thinking?However, she did not receive the praise from netizens, but was hit by one-sided retorts, "It's okay to hand it to any party, just say it, but the idea of 'should' be wrong", "Why don't you care about your husband? Do you don't trust him?", "I rarely hear that my husband wants to hand over the money to his wife, at least I don't have any friends around me." Some people also felt sorry for "My wife gave all the money to me because she trusted me very much", "After ten years of marriage, everything about my husband is still in the hands of my mother-in-law, are you more comforting?"
Many netizens tried to correct her past thoughts, "It's not who should be handed over, but who should be established as a joint account", "Why should my wife keep the salary? Which era is it? Thoughts? My family is in charge of their own, but with public family expenditure as the first priority, the rest is their own, "In addition to the joint account, the couple should still manage economically independently", "My wife earns her own money, and there is no joint account. If there is any difficulty with each other, they will still pay for help. This is a sense of trust!", "Just manage your own, respect each other."
Some people think that if you want to be managed by one person, you should choose the one who is good at managing your finances. Some netizens even expressed their grief, "I took 30,000 yuan a month, and the annual bonus was also given to her. After 8 years of marriage, I asked my wife how much money she still had. The amount was 0. I was full of questions and now I am in the divorce agreement!", "My father-in-law just gave all the money to my mother-in-law, but he was overwhelmed more than once."